Sharpness: D800
Low light: 5DM3
Post grading: D800
Focus: D800
The D800 offers better sharpness and uncompressed HDMI output, but the 5D wins in low light.
If you use it only for video, you might want to consider a dedicated video machine though, not a DSLR.
If you happen to shoot any stills, the D800 wins, the low light performance in stills is much better than the video low light performance, but that's not your question.
Overall, reading your work description, I'd say the 5D might suit you better, because low light performance seems important to you.
You should check this out and judge a bit for yourself: http://vimeo.com/42381520
And also, if you get the chance, try out both cameras.
Also there's this gem that showcases the D800 in low light a bit: http://vimeo.com/36305675 but I'm sure you can find a good low light video from the 5D as well.


