Looking to upgrade my Canon 450D

In terms of image quality, it's an even match between these two. There are better APS-C options out there, but it seems that you have decided to stick with Canon.

7D is ahead in build quality, ergonomics, focusing and it shoots faster (8 vs 5.3fps)

But are these worth the extra $500 compared to 60D? It's up to you.

60D's advantage is the swivel screen, which is useful when using tripod and shooting video.

In my opinion, the 60D is better value in this contest.

appx 500% cheaper from 7d yet competitive. you can invest that money in some good lenses. in short, it serves ur purpose very well

I came to this exact crossroad with my old 450D.  I recommend the 60D ultimately because of its articulating screen which will benefit your type of photography. 

Its been a few months now since I upgraded and almost all the situations the screen helped me to capture moments especially with fresh creative angles. 

The rest of the features are almost similar among the two models but one thing that stands out from the 7D is speed, which would help if you want to freeze sports and race events.

I own 4 canon dslr's. 10D 20D 450 and 7D. They are all good cameras and I really like my 7D. But if I were buying a dslr camera at this point and time I would have to answer some basic questions first.

Why do I need to upgrade? 

Why should I buy anything other than a full frame dslr in today's market? 

Should I stick with canon or check out nikon and possibly sony? All three brands have recently released lower level full frame dslr's.

If you don't have a lot of high end canon lenses, you may want to consider exploring another brand. If you want to stick with canon, you may want to consider the 6D (You may have to wait for that option - it's been announced but not yet released) The 6D has a full frame sensor and improved ISO's and will sell for $500-$600 more than the 7D. The 7D model is about 3 years old now and is not full frame.

If you're leaning towards sticking with the APS-C size sensor, besides the 60D you might want to check out the Rebel T4i. Many of the same features as 60D but also has continuous auto focus in video mode.

The 7D's speed and responsiveness will be invaluable for shooting weddings. And the 18 megapixel sensor offers stellar quality, some of the best on this side of a full frame.

Please read my answer to Azita-Ghasemi in reference to her "grainey photos" question.

But if you don't, the 7D's focus is superior, once you have Canon tech people help set it properly in "Custom Function". 

I also own a 60D which is very nice, but, the 7D is still much, much better.

They were completly same but the price... I even like the adjustAble auto ISO limit from 60

From 550D to 7D .... all are with almost same sensor and hence image quality.

Good camera for her weeding photography as it has 8fps....she will not miss any memorable moments.

Go for Canon 7D its awesome camera for Amatre and Pro photographer